Post #5: Happy Things (1)

Nothing makes me happier than knowing that I’ve formed a closer bond with someone 🙂

I always feel very heartened when people tell me their closest & darkest secrets. It means they trust me.

Trust. It’s something you take so much time to build but requires only a snap of the fingers (or less) for it to be gone. It’s quite sad when y’know you lost the trust of someone & all you want to do is make up for it but y’know deep in your heart, nothing’s ever gonna be the same again. Can’t help but feel sad/ angry at myself when I caused the trust to be broken in a relationship. You might think that this might help me be a better person & forgive when people break my trust but it doesn’t happen. I get really pissed when people break my trust & I know that the relationship can no longer be saved. Not ever.

In any case, I love being a listening ear & being there for someone when they need it. I love being able to give advice & it’s even better when that person takes your advice. I love giving out hugs when someone has had a bad day — I know how it feels like to feel like crap all day & not have anyone there for them.

If you are reading this, and if you are EVER feeling like no one is there to listen, you know where to find me 🙂

x

6 Things Every Extrovert Secretly Has To Deal With

Every single time I have to deal with this. It’s like nobody understands

Thought Catalog

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Over the past few years I’ve noticed a growing number of articles exclaiming, “How To Take Care of An Introvert” or “10 Things Everyone Should Understand About Introverts” and while I have no real problem with introverts and introversion, my issue is with the fact that people of the internet seem to have romanticized introversion in a way that turns any possible social impediments a person might have into desirable quirky traits. Not only this, but extroverts are suddenly the bad guys for not understanding introverts or mistreating introverts, etc, etc.

As a self-proclaimed extrovert, I’m pretty sick and tired of people assuming that introverts are the only people who have got it hard. Really, seriously? Are we really going to play this game? Now you look here, mister. Extroverts may not seem as delicate or may not seem as complex and diverse, but extroverts have a whole different…

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